"He came here asking for advice on why he was being blocked frequently, and quickly it was discovered that yes, he does send messages that many women would find disturbing."

It was not discovered, it was insinuated, and the conversation took an unfortunate turn where Dustin was accused of being a sexual pervert for which I don't see any evidence. You escalated the discussion to a charachter assasination, provoking Dusitn to get defensive. To me, he appears a normal ingenuous guy.

"His posts point to a very low level of emotional maturity and very little ability to accept responsibility, nor does he show an ability to conform to what is socially acceptable."

His posts point nothing but being unexpirienced in comunicating over the Internet on the boards like this one. Are you a specialist and trained to diagnose people online?

"We have a term for this type of person in North America - "incel". His post history indicates he has no issue treating women as possessions, he just seeks a specific type. Men with fragile egos and low social integration are a very dangerous combination, which is amplified by his experience in the military. We've had several cases of such people killing innocent people in Canada, and I don't encourage that type of attitude whatsoever."

You are a good guy and everything will be fine w you .. believe in your self ... and dont forget to tell your Kazahstan woman how much you want to kiss her all over and bla bla 🤭  and see what will happend 🤷‍♀️ i am just curiouse   and share your dates w us please   good luck and keep safe .. we all love you and worry for you ❤❤❤

Комплимент комплименту рознь .
Парень Дастин который говорит что его многие блокируют может быть и не извращенец . Но вы же поняли , что его многие блокируют , читая его признания....значит , многим не нравятся "такие комплименты" , переходящие в поцелуи с ног до головы .
Другое дело комплимент , который услышала Наталья : "вы хорошо выглядите "....Такой комплимент и меня бы не оттолкнул .

Будьте счастливы ! Берегите друг друга!

Да на удивление было приятно.
А тут автор пишет если перевод правильный, я при знакомстве говорю что хочу целовать да еще с ног до головы. И я прям перекрестилась что мне такого не было сказано и не испорчен мой полет.
Хотя я понимаю что кому то понравится и такое при знакомстве и секс в виртуале женщинам тоже интересен. Просто было бы неплохо сначала выяснить чего хочет эта конкретная женщина. А не врываться на ее территорию на своем танке. Была бы я заинтересована в мужчине сделавшем комплимент и не нарушившем мои границы, я бы ответила взаимностью а не блокировала его. А нарушил получает пулю в лоб без предупреждения, и без детальрого выяснения насколько он хороший и заботливый парерь.

I am currently talking to a woman from Kazakhstan, things are going well so far. If things do not work out with her then I will just move on. This ordeal has completely turned me off. I have decided I will never visit eastern europe. They are no friends of mine.

Таки Вам же было приятно, раз крылья выросли. Вы же не проследовали логической цепочкой "я хорошо выгляжу, я привлекаю его, он меня хочет, он считает меня доступной". Вот извращенец! 
Исходя з признания самого автора, он тоже начинает с того, какая женщина красивая.

Можно похвастаться? Мне впервые в жизни незнакомый мужчина на улице сделал комплимент: как ты хорошо выглядишь. У меня прям крылья выросли на этой неделе, даже мужу сказала.
Какое счастье что он не сказал при этом что хочет меня целовать с ног до головы. Это было бы худшее что я могу представить. Как будто я сосулька которую может каждый себе позволить и облизывать все кому не лень.

Нет, нет, Дастин. Очень многие восточноевропейские женщины так не думают. Мы все очень разные. И запросы у тебя нормальные. Я тебя уверяю, на постсоветском пространстве много девушек, которые будут тебя считать консервативным. Встретить женщину, которая подходит твоим ожиданиям абсолютно реально. Не падай духом и снова вперёд. Как правильно сказала Светлана- тебе нужна только одна женщина. Что остальные думают- не важно. Осталось только эту женщину встретить

Мужчина в автобусе обращается к женщине:
- Рыбка, пробей билетик, пожалуйста.
Женщина думает:
- Рыбка значит рыба, рыба значит щука, щука значит хищник,
хищник значит зубы, зубы значит собака, собака значит сука...ТОВАРИЩИ!!!
Он меня сукой обозвал!!!

Подобного рода логика прослеживается в эскалирующихся предположениях комментирующих.
Он говорит "Хочу ее обнять и поцеловать" а в итоге его уже в желании виртуального секса и неуважительном отношении к проституткам обвиняют  . Еще и в добавок диагноз выставили...

I appreciate your opinion Svetlana, but his victim complex and holier-than-thou attitude of his own is what I find most troubling. He came here asking for advice on why he was being blocked frequently, and quickly it was discovered that yes, he does send messages that many women would find disturbing. Instead of accepting that this behavior is unbecoming, he blamed it on an entire nation and religion being sexually incompatible because a few women don't tolerate his messages. His posts point to a very low level of emotional maturity and very little ability to accept responsibility, nor does he show an ability to conform to what is socially acceptable. Several people gave him advice that would have helped him succeed, but he immediately became hostile and turned it around and started judging others. We have a term for this type of person in North America - "incel". His post history indicates he has no issue treating women as possessions, he just seeks a specific type. Men with fragile egos and low social integration are a very dangerous combination, which is amplified by his experience in the military. We've had several cases of such people killing innocent people in Canada, and I don't encourage that type of attitude whatsoever. If you want to support him, maybe you can privately guide him in the right direction. I sincerely hope you do.

Hey Dustin, I just wanted to show you some support. I absolutely don't find in your words anything that you've been accused of. Unfortunately, I think that might be language and cultural differences. Perhaps, the automatic translation is not accurate enough and some subtleties have been lost in translation.
Do not get discouraged, do not take personally some harsh words. You know who you are and what you are looking for in your future partner. That's the only thing that matters.
Being very happily married to an American man for almost 5 years, I can attest that Americans make great husbands, and that Russians and Americans get along just fine. It does not matter that some women blocked you here. All in all, you need only one woman. You just have to find the right one. Sometimes, it takes a long time.
I do not agree with all you are saying here and suspect that you and I might be on the opposite sides of the Great American Divide, that tearing the country apart as a result of the last four years. However, I do believe that you are a good guy who absolutely deserve to be happy and loved by a woman who will appreciate you.

Chris, I carefully read the whole thread and I am lost... I think someone has assumed a prosecutor role too seriously here. While I agree with some of your points, you come across as incredibly judgmental and even arrogant towards Dustin. Nowhere in his words I noticed any of those things he's being accused of. He asked simple question: why many ladies here abruptly stop communication with him? There might have been so many different reasons, like language barrier, lack of common interests, choosing other man... Yet, everybody started speculating about Dustin being sexual pervert and deeply psychologically disturbed person. It's freaking rude!
Living in the US, I believe he is just a normal American guy from a small town, with a typical Christian upbringing. Nothing wrong with being true to yourself. If you are willing to change who you in sake of meeting Eastern European lady, well good for you. Do not be arrogant to those who just want to find a partner who will love them for who they are.

Christianity is dying here. Of course I would love to find a protestant american woman. The problem is finding the protestant part. At churches it is mostly old people. Some people already call america a post-christian nation. Our government is supposed to be a representative government but it does not represent anything about me. I am a protestant standing on my own, with nowhere to run. As christianity dies here I am dying with it.

Dustin, ты принял решение раньше, чем написал этот пост. У большинства присутствующих здесь парней нет проблем с женщинами. А женщины на сайте достойные. Если ты не хочешь меняться, то оглянись вокруг. Может быть, твоя женщина мечты не на сайте, а рядом с тобой, в твоей стране и в твоём городе...

Если бы согласие на виртуальный секс гарантировало покорность в отношениях и желание заниматься реальным сексом по щелчку пальцев то наверное не было сотен тысяч иностранных бывших жен в америке, привезенных для счастливо-сексуальной жизни но не оправдавших этих надежд.
Может проще в своей стране поискать? Уже столько ввезли фиппинок и других национальностей.

I am done. I have been up for 2 days straight and I have a doctors appointment. You can talk as much trash about me. I've made my points.

My mistake. I mixed what I said to her a little bit with what I put down as my ideal partner. To her I said you are so adorable I want to wrap my arms around you and kiss you playfully. My I deal partner was something like She wants me to kiss all over her body. I am not entirely sure if that is correct because early on I toned down romantic language on my partner preferences.

Through this ordeal I have decided I will not be with an eastern european. I am a protestant, the freest of Christians. Seeing how you orthadox Christians think is too restrictive to me. Between you and catholics I just cannot think in such a structured way. Life is not living by versus, it is living by heart. You want me to change that. I just cannot do that.

That is not an argument.

"I mention how beautiful she is and say I want to wrap my arms around her and kiss her from head to toe" - You wrote it

Dustin, если не можешь изменить ситуацию... измени отношение к ней🤗 Вам, действительно, говорят как лучше. И это люди, которые нашли свои половинки, свое счастье и любоаь!

I definitely see why people block you.

As a man who has lived life to the fullest. I will teach you a little trick that people like me learn by being around a few things. There is this mental attitude called confession through projection. If we remove everyone's posts and only leave yours up. All we have to do is read any accusations you have made in a singular tone. The reason you only project on one person is because you are subconsciously admitting who you are. So when say to me that I am mentally unstable you are stating who you are. If you notice when I make an accusation. I compare multiple people at the same time. That is because I am making a comparison not a confession. It's psychology I think you might learn a little about yourself if you do some research.

I never said I would kiss her whole body. You are literally making things up just to reach your conclusion. I said you are so adorable that I want to hug you and playfully kiss you. Jesus said to lust over a woman is to lie with her. If you interpret that as lust then I do not know what to tell you.

Looking down on people? What are you talking about? There is no judgment in my post - I'm not telling you that you're an awful person because you paid for the services of a prostitute, I'm saying that those types of things are not for public discussion under any circumstances. Keep them to yourself. I don't know how you manage to twist every piece of advice we have shared with you. Just get help, dude. It's clear you're in pain, but you're pursuing the wrong solutions.

Если мужчина пользуется услугами проститутки, то он поддерживает сексуальное рабство. Даже, если он платит, в любой момент он может не заплатить и применить силу. В этих ситуациях мужчины рассматривают женщин, как сексуальный объект, но не как личность.
Как бы мужчине не было тяжело, он не должен платить женщине, даже за возможность просто прикоснуться к её телу.
Но если бы вы просто хотели помочь женщине, которой тоже было не сладко, в чем я ни капли не сомневаюсь, вы бы просто дали ей деньги. Без всяких ожиданий, что с вами женщина должна расплатиться своим телом.
Это моё мнение.

Где вы видите, что Крис смотрит на эту проститутку с высока? Он вам говорит, что эти истории не могут привлечь к вам женщин. Вы можете проводить время с кем хотите. Но зачем об этом рассказывать всему миру???

Ага. Но чужую женщину вы готовы целовать, всё её тело. Вы так и не хотите понимать почему женщины вас блокируют. ПОТОМУ ЧТО вы ещё не встретившись, уже мысленно лежите с ней в постели.

I am a warfighter. That will never change. War does not leave you. I am not so spoiled in life I look down on anyone. God gives us all a purpose if we choose to accept it. A real fighter can tell whose innocent. That prostitute you look down on, is more innocent than you.