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Hi Eric, these experiences refer to two first-encounters in Europe with Russian women. The first case, we arrived at the airport in Rome and were together until her boarding call on the outbound flight, which was on the sixth day. We stayed in the same hotel room, and neither one of us wanted or needed any time alone. There were no issues with this whatsoever, but lots of time was spent on Skype and messaging prior. The second case, I stayed at a hotel in Marseille and picked the young lady up every morning at the place she was staying. We spent around 10-12 hours each day, every day for 6 days. I don't really think my cases are out-of-the-ordinary, but building trust does take patience, as I said before. I was willing to accommodate any demand and would repeatedly ask if there was something I could do to make her feel more comfortable and safe. If she would suggest something, I wouldn't try to convince her to follow my way, but would imagine myself in her situation and do what I felt was best. Actions speak very loudly to Russian/Slavic women, and I've found that they will trust you if you give them a reason to. With that said, if two people are a good match, they will have lots to talk about and over-exposure should never be a concern. Just as they will trust you if you give them a reason to, they will give you all of their time if you give them a reason to, as well. At the beginning, it's easy to think "it's going to be a long 5 days if this goes badly", but time flies when you're having fun, and by the third day each time, I was already wishing I had booked a longer trip.