Danny, please forgive me for writing my side view. But it seems to me that you are in a circle. When accidents repeat themselves, this is no longer an accident, but a pattern. In Russia they say: "to step on the same rake." In such cases, it is recommended to analyze your thoughts and actions, and understand what is wrong from this. For my part, it seems that you subconsciously find exactly such women. And perhaps the fear of flying and ignorance of some language is just the tip of the iceberg. But this feature may suggest that there is still an iceberg under the water. An iceberg that can destroy the boat again. And it would be nice to analyze the iceberg that destroyed the boat. That is, think about what the fear of flying may indicate. In any case, I wish you good luck and family happiness. But maybe someday my words will come in handy. We never know what might happen the next minute.