Hello! It's a shame when this happens! There can be many different reasons. Men actually pay to be featured on this site. Self, I've met three girls in Kiev. One of them was just looking for money. I also try to always meet them in Kiev or another appropriate country eliminates the need to send money for visa. Because I've also talked to girls just want to have a visa and money when you want to meet them in Kiev, they stop writing immediately. The man you are talking about thought maybe it was too expensive. And maybe ashamed to tell it. I simply think that you should continue to look for love. Self safety, I would not bring in a girl if I was not as sure as possible that it would hold more than a few years. I want to meet a girl that can keep up with the rest of life. And certainly write a prenuptial agreement. So if the girl would go after a while, I would not like to give away half my life to her "thank you". However, I have discovered that there are serious girls on this site.