The two matters (people posting in the opposite gender's forum) and Dustin's matter are two entirely different subjects. Why are you conflating a lack of respect in one, to a lack of respect in the other? Liudmila, I usually find some value in some things you write here, but this is disrespectful, yourself. The ladies' group is specifically called "Ladies Only" - and you'll notice that it is incredibly rare that men post things there. Asking for the same in return from the women here is not disrespectful to women. If anything, it eliminates the inequality if both sides have their own groups, with one combined group in the middle - people have the freedom to choose where to create their topic, after all. Suggesting to Dustin that he should consider toning down the talk of intimacy for his own benefit is not at all the same. I don't know if you're being intentionally disingenuous, but your claimed "equivalence" of disrespect is a stretch of logic, to say the least.