It's not unreasonable to feel sympathy for a person who has been hurt or feels betrayed in a relationship, regardless of who was at fault. To say "you deserved it, you only chase models" is just as cynical as saying that "all women are hypergamists" like our other friend here. If you truly wish this suffering on a person, maybe it's time to take a step back and evaluate the reasons for your bitterness, because these generalizations of an entire gender do nothing but create anger and resentment. We are not all compatible and we have many other criteria for evaluating a person of the opposite sex - they are beyond wealth and attractiveness. You have your reasons why you only respond to 1/3 of people who write to you - that is your right. There is simply not enough time or patience in the world for everyone to respond to 100% of what they read, so we make guesses as to our best prospects. As mentioned, nobody here owes anyone anything.