Olga, you need a little bit of fantasy and free thinking to answer that question. It is not about scalps! Do I sound like a bounty hunter? It is her bad treatment. My friends ask about the city, the people, the hotel, the places we visited etc. I come back and must tell my friends that she treated me like an enemy, like a dog, that she mocked me and avoided me! It is a big thing in Germany if a man travels abroad to meet a woman. It is not regarded as something honorable. I did it anyway and now I come back and must tell my friends that I was an idiot.