I agree, strong in men and women doesn't look the same, we all have roles to play. Most men appreciate softness and femininity in our women, we don't want our women to be essentially men in drag. We like the differences and we embrace the differences. The question was what does strength in women look like to a man, and all I was getting at is a little bit on independence, and that doesn't mean make your own money or go get a job it means have your own friends and a life outside me and take care of the things you can. We're not expecting too much.