I wrote my thoughts about his situation. I'm just imagine myself. I perfectly imagine the trouble when someone mother is sick (in my case, my grandmother, she died unfortunately). You all understand that most likely the whole treatment does not make sense and it's really a lot of money, but you do everything.. everything!!.. Because even an extra day does matter. I perfectly understand the difference between a friend and a fiance. A light friend can say - this is not my problem, I'm sorry. I buy a car, I go on vacation and so on, I can not help you and I can not even lend money. The Groom - no. He certainly can, but I'll break all relations. Because in a difficult situation he showed reality. And yes, I understand the live. I can say hello to my neighbors, but I will never ask them for money and will block them for refusal. This is strange and not adequate. I think the relationship was serious, if the lady said that she needs help. In response, she received stupid tales and insults. Even now he continue with this. It's probably a conscience. I would like to believe in it ..