O , yes , Tatyana , I get your point.But you , yourself have said , that women are (already) sexy .So , we men should not say it (again) to her /them. And , I personally , will not write or text a woman , that she is sexy , when we (she and me) are just in the proces of getting to know each other better. Of course , we both must find out , about our views on friendship or a relation as a couple. In the first days / weeks of a relation , I certainly will buy her flowers or other gifts. So , I know how to behave. You may have had encounters , with other men , who asked you for bikini photos or have texted / written you other messages. If so , then I understand , your way of thinking and how you may perceive , other or all(?) men. But I can assure you , that there are also men , with better /higher standards ... And you may like them ... eventually