Sorry Tatyana, I forgot to add this to my last reply. I can’t answer your question about why the men you’ve met that are your age behave the way they do. We obviously come from different cultures. I have single and married friends your age and most are successful in life, raising a family and financially. They run their own businesses, live in nice houses, and take their family on regular holidays They are amazing fathers, who attend school functions and take an active toll in their children’s life and education. At home they share the chores... cook, clean wash clothes and dishes. Most are romantics and always treat their wives and girlfriends with respect and affection. They are willing to support their wife emotionally and talk constructively through problems They are strong men in the traditional sense, who care deeply for everyone around them, especially family. They were raised that way and have shown these qualities from their teen years. In our culture the age of a man has nothing to do with the type of man he is.... so in this situation would you prefer to marry a man your own age or an older man?