I'm sorry you feel this way. I apologize if I did not articulate my intentions and thoughts very well. I do not feel like I'm saving anyone. We have a lot of problems in the States and life here can be challenging in many ways. I am here because American women are now scoring higher in masculine test than men. Many do not have feminine traits, some even burp in public. They even try to burp as loud as possible. I find this disgusting and uncouth. Not all are this way but I thought it would be wise to broaden my search. I seek a relationship of mutual value and respect. Many American women simply seek value and respect as a sense of entitlement. I do not see what is wrong for wanting someone to appreciate me by displaying effort and love.